Wow. Fighter, how gallant of you to think that even for a moment for a lady you don't even know.
For me, it wouldn't be so much about the fight itself as the trappings around it. It's about a man wanting so badly to make a lady feel special that he'd go so far as to fight for her. I wrote hubbyinafight because I thought it would be cool for each man to want to do that for his own wife.
But I have to confess as I absorb your brief note, I think it would make me feel incredible for two men -- my hubby and another -- to both be willing to fight just for me. I can hardly imagine.
I doubt this will ever happen. We're older, and frankly, part of why I would want this is to motivate my hubby to get active again. He used to be fit until old man aches and pains discouraged him. But if it could happen, I'd imagine something like this...
I tell hubby that I've been flirting with a guy online, tell him that you remind me of him when he was younger. I know him well enough to know how he'd react. He says he wants me to enjoy myself, but he'll still feel a little jealous. I would gradually tell him more about you, one day say that you want to meet me.
He used to say he'd fight for me. I never let him. The idea interested me, but it also freaked me out. Now that he's older, I wish that I had let him. I think he needed it.
So to continue my imagined scenario, when the time seemed right, I'd remind him of that offer to fight for me. I'd ask whether he still meant it, and suggest that all 3 of us could meet, and you two could settle whether I'd get to go out with you or not. I'd tell him to get back in a gym to get ready, because it would all depend on whether he won.
Like I said before, safe limits. I'd put boxing gloves on you both, use regular boxing rules, timed rounds and such, watch you duke it out until one man gives up.
What do you think?